Yesterday, 7th April, I lost my best friend, my lovely wife Val. She died after a long battle with cancer in Tarragal House, Erina, NSW. The last 9 months have been very difficult and particularly the final two hellish days but I am so fortunate to have many great memories of Val when things were rosy and she always had a smile.
I met Val in my first year at university. We were married 4 years later and our marriage lasted over 51 years. Val was mother to our two beautiful children, Lisa and Toby and grandmother to Ellie, Scarlett, Poppy, Otto and Felix.
Val was very creative and she was also a great cook with shelves full of cookbooks and a kitchen full of gadgets. She was always well informed eagerly devouring the newspapers and business and news magazines. Even in her final days she was anxious for me to read her the Sydney Morning Herald, The Guardian and the New York Times from my iPad.
The beautiful house in which we have lived since 2008 is very much Val's creation. She was a lady of many talents.
Above all else she was a great traveller and no sooner had she returned home from one trip than she was thinking about the next one. We are so fortunate to have done so much travelling together at home and overseas over the years.
Although she has not been home for 6 months and I should have adjusted to her absence by now the house seems even more empty today. And, of course, beautiful Phoebe, our Himalayan cat died three weeks ago and her absence is compounding the sense of emptiness. It is a time of great sadness.